Ohh right =/ Hmm I`m also still looking for some cool sites.
Here my anwers:
1. Subject to whim/on certain days
2. Ehh most people avoid me^^
3. Yep^^ Emo & Co ne^^
4. I think most people don`t know all the differences between VK, Emo, Gothic etc. but I think they value it rather negatively^^